I'm here to tell you, the person sitting directly beside you, standing right in front of you, and the people who surround you everyday, have pondered the same morbid thoughts. Every person you ever see privately has their own heartbreaking problems that may be screaming defeat yet constantly unheard by the tremendous public.
Do you want proof? Just think of all the friends you have right now. When you first met them, those friends seem perfectly happy and dandy, just like any other person you may ever see. Then you wonder, why do I need to be the only one burdened with stressful issues of my own? Overtime, as your friendships strengthened and the protective guards weakened, unsettling problems freely roam through the comfortable opening. They finally open up about their deeply distressing issues because they can specifically trust you. Apply this same scenario to every single person around you. On first impression, these people seems perfectly fine and dandy. However, it is only overtime when you've built a valuable trust between the specific stranger that they comfortably allow you into their own unsettling problems. Remember, you are not every person's very connected friend to serve an open ear filled with their distressing issues. Therefore, you are truly unaware to everyone's genuine pain. Just like your first oblivious impression of that close friend, no matter just how fine and dandy the strangers around you seem on the very surface, there are despairing personal problems that may secretly run rampant beneath. You're just not their valuable friend to tell.
I am just trying to reassure you. You are not alone. You are not alone with the dejected emotions that stir you restless day by day. You are not alone because everyone, to some extent, is twisted inside out with their own distressing issues. Trust me. They are. You're just not the very first person they tell.
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